:: Curse her out.
Hearing [[Mrs. Anderson]] go on about wardrobe, hair, and makeup, and her clear belief that [[you|You]]'re going to become a girl and ought to become a girl enrages you.  All of the anger and frustration you've been keeping inside for the last day just bubbles up all at once and explodes out of you in a righteous fury.

"What the fuck are you talking about!?" you scream at her.  "I'm not going to become a girl!  I'm not going to need to know about clothes, hair, and makeup or any of that shit!  Why won't everyone here just leave me alone!?"

"Now, Parker," Mrs. Anderson says calmly.  "I know you're upset and it's perfectly understandable, but that's no excuse for carrying on like this and using such language.  That's not the way a proper young lady should behave."

"I'm not a young lady, you bitch!" you yell.

"Parker!" she snaps.  "You will pull yourself together and apologize this instant!"

"No, I won't apologize!  You're not my mother and I wouldn't even let her speak to me like that!"

"Parker, you're getting hysterical.  Now I'm going to count to three and you're going to calm down or there will be serious consequences.  Keep  in mind that you are a guest in my home," Mrs. Anderson says.

Something in the tone of her voice tells you that perhaps you should calm down.  You are completely dependent on her and her husband for food and shelter and so on.  Perhaps you should be taking your anger and frustration out on somebody else.

[[Calm down.]]
[[Keep yelling at her.]]